The Sleep Away Camp
An upright, seated position that uses gravity and a wide stance to provide a clear, direct angle for multi-zone exploration.
How to do it
- The Setup: Sit on a comfortable, flat surface (like a bed or a rug) with your back firmly supported against a wall, headboard, or a stack of pillows.
- Positioning: Spread your legs wide and bend your knees slightly if needed. This “open” posture uses gravity to settle your weight into your sit-bones, naturally exposing the perineum and anal area.
- The Technique: Reach down between your legs. The upright angle allows for a very natural range of motion for your arms. Use one hand for anal play and the other for clitoral or nipple stimulation.
- Visual Element: This is an excellent position for those who enjoy visual exploration with a mirror, as the angle provides a clear line of sight to the entire vulva and anal region.
Why it works
The seated, upright position offers a psychological sense of “active” engagement compared to lying down. Physically, the wide leg spread reduces tension in the inner thighs and pelvic floor, making it easier to relax the sphincters for anal play. Because your back is supported, your core muscles don’t have to work to keep you upright, freeing up all your energy and focus for the sensations in your hands and erogenous zones. It is one of the most ergonomically accessible positions for simultaneous clitoral and anal stimulation.
Everything here is optional. Go at your own pace. Read about safety.