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The Pearl Necklace

A texture-based technique using a string of beads to provide unique, rhythmic friction across the vulva and clitoris.

How to do it

Use a necklace with round, smooth beads (such as costume pearls or Mardi Gras beads). Stand or kneel, holding one end of the necklace in front of you and reaching between your legs with your other hand to hold the other end behind your back. Pull the necklace back and forth in a “sawing” or rhythmic motion so the beads glide over your clitoris and labia.

  • Pro Tip: Apply a small amount of lubricant to the beads to ensure a smooth, silky glide.
  • Safety Note: Avoid using expensive jewelry that might break. You can substitute the necklace with a satin scarf, a soft towel, or dedicated adult toys like clean anal beads used externally.

Why it works

The individual beads create a “bumpy,” undulating sensation that fingers or flat surfaces cannot replicate. As each bead passes over the clitoris, it provides a quick burst of pressure followed by a brief release, creating a natural, rhythmic pulse. This constant variation in texture and pressure keeps the nerve endings highly responsive and can lead to a very different, often more “electric” type of arousal compared to steady rubbing.

Everything here is optional. Go at your own pace. Read about safety.